Take a moment to answer the following questions. What do you spend the most time doing? What activity takes up the majority of your day, your week, your month (or even your year — in case you started to sing the “Friends” theme song to yourself)? Despite what you may have seen on TV sitcoms, for most of us it’s not hanging out with friends in a coffee shop — it’s working! Now consider this: [Read more…]
Is It Me or Is It the Job?
Amy is a 42 year-old school teacher who finds herself struggling to get work every morning. When she comes to meet with me for career counseling, she says she is wondering if she should change jobs due to her serious job-related unhappiness that [Read more…]
We have all been there: It is 45 minutes into an hour long interview and the person holding our resume asks what seems like their final question. “Do you have any questions for me?” If you have done some preparing you likely have many specific questions about the organization and position. However, there is probably one question you have failed to ask that could increase your chances of securing an offer for the position.
Making a career decision: Parts one and two
There are three important aspects to consider when making a career decision, whether for the first time or tenth. Many times people confuse these three things and my job is to help them sort out how each of these three aspects impact their career decisions. The first aspect is your interests. Put simply, what do you like doing? What types of activities do enjoy doing on a daily basis? What things excite and energize you? The second aspect is your abilities. In other words, what are you good at doing? In what areas do you excel? Many people get these two aspects confused and intertwined.
What you enjoy and what you are good at doing are really two separate things. For example, you might really enjoy cooking – creating new dishes and using new ingredients to spice up old classic recipes. However, just because you enjoy this activity does not [Read more…]
When contemplating a change in your professional life there are many ways of achieving your desired outcomes. These outcomes are usually what prompt your desire for change. For example, you may want to feel differently, to have more time to pursue hobbies or spend with loved ones, or to simply spend your days doing something that is more or less challenging than your current work.